I really like your website. I have been all the way through it. I’m very intrigued, and I find myself thinking about sex and spanking 24/7. I have always thought about spanking, but never this much! I live in [coastal city] but I travel to Houston on a regular basis, and I would be interested in meeting you.
I’m glad you wrote! Tell me more.
I am very curious about many things. I don’t quite understand how things begin. I would like very much to meet you. I’m very embarrassed to even be communicating with you about this. Your website is incredible! After reading your website, I feel comfortable and excited. I hope that I am not communicating with a dangerous person.
That’s a valid concern! As I say on the site, I enjoy hurting women, and not everyone who enjoys hurting women is safe. So you should definitely be cautious. …
I am a novice at this.
I am a regional supply rep for a medical equipment manufacturer, and I come to Houston regularly to meet with the orthopedic surgeons there.
I know that I am not a masochist and do not like a lot of pain, but spanking turns me on. As I said, my libido is in full throttle, and has been raging for the last 6 months. I really don’t know exactly what kind of spanking I’m looking for. Am I a freak?
You are not a freak! There are LOTS of people who love spanking . . . and who do it, for real, with great pleasure.
There are certainly women who want to be spanked but don’t think of themselves as masochists. And when you say your libido is in full throttle, trust me, I know what you mean.
… it went from there, to more emails, to meeting at a restaurant. Over lunch, I told her that I wasn’t interested in conventional sex or a romantic relationship, but I’d be happy to spank her. She was fine with that, and we set a date for her first spanking.
Some of the women that visit me want to be spanked hard. Some, like Nicole, are more interested in spanking as an erotic stimulus. She also wanted to be hurt, just not very much, and so she was glad to have a safeword (which she never used).
Nicole was excited when we first met. She was also understandably nervous, and her attitude was influenced by her persistent feeling that she was a freak.
I wanted her to feel comfortable, so the first time I spanked her I kept it purely erotic. As we continued to meet, her trust and confidence grew, and I spanked her harder. But if you are looking for intense punishment spankings, you should check out Steph, Cat, or Sandy.
I didn’t mind that she wanted erotic stimulation more than pain, and I got my pleasure from being there with her. That’s why I have the Only Rule—that she must ask for permission, and receive it, before she climaxes. She thus gives the orgasm to me.
I didn’t want any typical sexual pleasure for myself, and as you browse through her spankings you’ll find that I am always fully dressed.
Like many medical device reps, Nicole had been a cheerleader. That positive attitude works well for her in a sales job, and it helped her spankings as well.
Over time, Nicole stopped worrying that she might be a freak. She came to accept who she is sexually, including her intense need to being spanked. Before long she was diving headlong into our encounters, often reaching her first climax within five minutes.
Spanking relationships are negotiated between the people involved. If things work out well, both get something they want, even if each must also give up something they would like. Although I spanked Nicole harder over time, it was never as hard as I would have liked; that was what I gave up. Although she was sexually gratified—extravagantly—we never engaged in what the muggle world considers sex; that was what she gave up. I mean this in a realistic way, not a negative one, since both of us enjoyed our encounters tremendously.
As I get them organized, I’m going to post her first ten spankings. Because sound files are large, I sometimes post just part of the sound file; in these cases I link you to the complete sound file.
Likewise, I’m posting some of the photos here; the rest–generally the more graphic ones–are at FetLife.
As you listen, you’ll realize that no two spankings were the same, and you can hear us negotiating as each spanking proceeds. I’m looking for opportunities to spank her harder; sometimes she wants that, and sometimes she just wants erotic spanking and masturbation. I also hope you’ll notice, as Nicole did herself, how often we are laughing. That’s just right for a former cheerleader.