kate and I connected at bondage.com, the site that was later eclipsed by FetLife. We both love spanking, so when I planned a visit to her hometown I wrote:
I have no idea what your personal situation is like, so forgive me if this isn’t right for you . . . but . . . no harm in asking . . .
I’m going to be in town from Thursday through Sunday of the weekend after next. Are you interested in dinner (either with or without a spanking) on Saturday?
Yes, she was interested; and not in dinner alone. She wanted to meet the night I arrived, Thursday, with the option for a second date on Saturday.
In the next few days we e-mailed and talked on the phone to discuss our schedules, our interests, our experiences, and our desires. And I engaged in some public flirting by posting Kate’s Thanksgiving Paddling.
Her Thursday spankings are posted at You’ve Run Out of Bottom.
Her Saturday spankings (they are intense) are at You Need Some More Paddling.