Thanks for this note. It’s normal to be anxious about this sort of correspondence, but you’re through the hardest part—pushing “send” on the first couple of e-mails. You’ll do fine.
Am I right that you are unmarried and don’t have a major boyfriend right now? So you’re free to do what you want?
At this point it’s clear that spanking is of real interest to you. If we can find a way for you to safely explore the real life experience, that would be good. Let’s talk about that—about getting you spanked. You’ve got three choices.
You could follow the suggestions on my web site about finding local spanking partners online, or finding local spanking partners through spanking-related groups, or you could come visit me. At this point we don’t have enough info to know which of these makes the most sense for you.
One argument in favor of finding local partners is that, well, it’s always good to have someone local who has the potential for a long-term relationship. On the other hand, I’m safe, I have patience with beginners, and if I spank you, you’ll learn something about the real life experience that you can take back to your search for someone local.
What are your thoughts about finding a partner?
Monday, July 07, 2008
Thanks for your reply. I appreciate your help in making this easier and maybe a little less awkward than I anticipated.
I come from (and still live in) a very small town. I wouldn’t dream of looking for a partner in this area. If by chance it showed up, that’s a different story. I think that I would only be comfortable exploring the real life experience with someone sane, experienced and kind. Truthfully, I never imagined that I would even go this far. There is something about you though, your honesty, your openness that kept me coming back. Anyway, those are my thoughts on finding a partner.
This is getting easier…
Hmmm, even small towns are near larger towns. I wouldn’t rule out finding someone local automatically. Have you read
Mary Catherine’s narrative, Reclaiming the Fire, on my web site? She lives in the middle of nowhere, and found a guy who lived there too, and was similarly committed to privacy (they are both well known locally). I’m not trying to force you, but it’s always good to have choices.
Of course, we can also talk more about your other choice—you coming to Houston to be spanked by me. What have your fantasies along those lines been? . . . I’m wondering about your fantasies about the spanking itself, as well as how the trip itself would be set up.