Just getting ready for work & checking my mail.
Wow, I think I will be ‘squirming’ all day. One thing is for sure, and that is you have a gift with words.
My spring break is March 3rd – 10th. I’m not sure if that is too far away, or dangerously close. 🙂
The week of March 3-10 has possibilities. I assume that you fly to Houston one day, that I spank you twice that afternoon and evening, and that you fly back the next day sometime in the mid or late morning.
But we should get to know each other before we commit to this. Exchange likes & dislikes, more photos, talk on the phone. That will either lead to a recognition that this isn’t really what we want or, more likely, smooth the way for a terrific encounter. We can learn a lot more about each other in the next 2-3 weeks, plenty of time for you to book your tickets if it’s still looking good.
I’m not putting you off; just saying, the time and money we invest in this is worth a careful discussion of what we each hope to get out of our encounter.
Do you still have a profile on bondage.com? If so, what name are you using now?
I’d like to know more about the spankings you’ve gotten so far; what worked, what didn’t.
And I’d like to know more about the spanking you want me to give you.
Those dates would work very well. I have been looking at flights on-line, and haven’t seen anything less than $300, but I have a ‘friend of a friend’ who works for Delta and might be able to get me a deal on some ‘buddy tickets’. I should know by mid week.
I hope you are having a pleasant weekend.
I’m glad you want to have this experience. Although you’ve never done this, your knowledge from the spankings you have received, and your belief that this is something you need, make it very likely that you will be amply rewarded.
Your realistic understanding of what your punishment will involve clears away the most significant hurdle to your visit. I believe that you will visit and that it will be amazing.
I mentioned earlier that we have more to discuss. What remains are the negotiations to ensure that you and I know what we want in other areas, since your visit will involve more than spanking alone.
An easy way to start is for you to fill out every item on all the checklists at bondage.com. If you don’t want to have that much info on public view, just alert me when you’ve done so, I can take a look, and then you can go back and un-check them.
I’m open to your questions, concerns, and reflections as well. And let’s plan on talking on the phone this weekend.
I do want this experience. I am more convinced of that than ever. I do have to admit that I am curious as to what “more than spanking alone” entails. Very curious.
My school and work schedule is on the crazy side as this week ends. I won’t have a chance to sit down and look at the bondage.com checklist ’til Sunday night at the earliest. I have, however, attached a standard checklist that I used when meeting new people.
How does Sunday evening look for that phone call? I’ll go ahead and give you my number, just in case it is a good time for you. I do look forward to talking to you.
Thanks for the checklist, it covers a lot of ground. Do go ahead and finish the b.com version when you have time, as you don’t have everything on your list.
You know that I make sound and video recordings of my scenes. The universal rule on that is that I don’t save anything without your consent, so if for some reason the scene goes sour, I’ll erase the tape with you there. (This has never happened but I want you to know it will be your choice.) We’ll negotiate the details of the recordings before you come so there are no surprises. I’m sure you don’t want a video of you being spanked on the internet, and neither do I!
About sex: I do not want a blow job. I won’t decide that intercourse is suddenly a Really Good Idea. I won’t masturbate myself, either. Over the course of the 24 or so hours, it’s typical for my female partner to be spanked two or more times and to reach climax between two and twenty, or more, times. I facilitate all of this but do not ejaculate myself.
Yes, there are women who just want to be spanked. I have done that, and that is fine if it’s what she wants; but 90% or more want the sexual excitement that can go along with a spanking and welcome the attention I lavish on their pleasure.
Some women are disconcerted by my restraint, feeling that they are getting all the fun and where is the pleasure in it for me? Trust me, I do this for pleasure. You needn’t worry about it being one-sided.
I am so looking forward to this visit!. Less than a month away…
Hope you are well,
I’m excited about your visit.
I have every confidence that we’ll have a great time. My only misgiving is that your skin is likely to break down long before I want to stop punishing you.
You will see it differently; by that time you will be desperate for it to end. But I’m not talking about pleasing you here.
I want to do some of your spanking with you wearing latex panties. They protect your skin while permitting you to feel the pain almost undiminished. So please buy, and bring with you, a pair of latex panties.
The best bet for buying them is a local sex or fetish shop, so you can try them on and see for yourself. You can also buy them online; if you go this route, get busy, because you want a chance to make sure that what you get fits right.
I needed to go shopping for something to wear this weekend, so the timing was perfect. What I found was a pair of latex hot shorts. They are super tight and cover the lower portion of my bottom and just a little bit of the top of my thigh. I am pretty sure they will suit the purpose for what you have in mind.
I can’t wait!