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Information and Understanding About Adult Spanking

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Glossary

Bottom: the person being spanked.

LGBTQ: lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer or questioning.

Lurker: someone who reads a blog but does not comment (which is called lurking).

OTK: Over The Knee, with the person being spanked face down over the knee of the top.

Top: the person doing the spanking.

Vanilla: the sexuality that society expects. Vanilla sex, for instance, is typically penis-in-vagina. This is in contrast to kinky sex (whether it involves spanking or other activities). This is not dismissing penis-in-vagina as boring or irrelevant; many people enjoy both spanking and vanilla sex. The term “vanilla” is, in short, descriptive, not judgmental.

 

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